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50 Speed Dating Questions You Need To Know For Your Next Date

“Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers.”

– Voltaire
Get Creative

Make an Impression with Creative Questions

  • If you could have done a job aside from the current one, which one would it be?
  • Which is the best family trip you remember from childhood?
  • Which Game of Thrones character describes you best?
  • Which was the last movie or TV show you got addicted to?
  • What is your hidden talent?
  • If you had to trade lives with another person for a day, who would that be and why?
  • What would you buy if you win a lottery?
  • What are your top three bucket list items?
  • What one irrational fear scares you the most?
  • Which movie title best describes you?

Find Your Partner’s Favorites

  • Who is your favorite artist/band?
  • Which is your favorite book?
  • What is your favorite place to visit?
  • What is your favorite food/drink?
  • What is your favorite season or time of the year?

Go Unconventional With These Speed Dating Questions

  • Which is your favorite app on your phone?
  • If you could give yourself a nickname, what would it be?
  • What is the craziest/spontaneous thing you have done?
  • What would people be surprised to learn about you?
Great questions gives the opportunity to click

Quirky Speed Dating Questions

  • What are your biggest turn-offs?
  • Where is your happy space

Let Them Choose

  • Do you like a bouquet or a box of chocolates on a date?
  • Do you prefer a coffee date or an evening with wine?
  • Do you like pets – cats or dogs?
  • Do you prefer online shopping or shopping in the malls?
  • Would you prefer a tranquil evening or an action-packed night with your partner?

Break The Ice with Super Engaging Speed Dating Questions

  • What has been the best thing that happened to you in recent times?
  • As a child what was your dream profession?
  • What is the best gift you’ve ever received?
  • How would you like to plan a day off (vacation day)?
  • How did you meet your best friend?
  • What accomplishments are you most proud of achieving?
  • What is the one physical attribute you love about yourself?
  • Which country or place would you love to visit?
  • What is that one mistake you never want to repeat in life?

Questions For Her

  • Can you describe yourself in a single word?
  • What makes you stand apart from others?
  • What’s your best memory of childhood?

Questions For Him

  • Can you describe yourself in a single word?
  • Which quality of yours makes you unique?
  • What is that thing you always wanted to learn but never had time for?

Questions You Should Never Ask

  • Politics or controversies
  • Cost of (materialistic) things
  • Past relationships
  • Weight or cosmetic issues
  • Marriage and kids
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Have you got any great questions? What’s your most successful dating question?